Stop hanging out with girls and start dating
If you approach her in saggy sweatpants and a nappy old t-shirt, I’m not saying it’s a definite no, but you’re not helping your chances. Now back to the shoes: notice when you’re wearing a nice outfit, a woman’s eyes will go to your shoes.It’s amazing how great shoes can take a so-so outfit up to the next level.But if you ask if she wants to “hang and play some X-Box,” who knows what she’ll think?
They have a phrase that goes something like “See the glass as already broken.” They don’t overreact when something is destroyed or when a glass breaks because that glass is already broken.
It is inevitable that the glass will break, so they see the glass as already broken—there’s no overdeveloped sense of attachment to it. If she says no, it’s not like you’re really LOSING something.
Now the big caveat to this is: don’t get hung up rehearsing specific dialog—don’t memorize your script, otherwise if things veer off in a different direction you could really be thrown.
Just envision the sensation of feeling success, of being confident, of having a good rapport with her.
Don’t get all dreamy about it—the higher your hopes and dreams are, the farther they can fall.